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StephiLou
09-29-2008, 08:05 PM
OK. We had a REALLY good weekend!

First, we were able to take DS to the annual picnic that the docs have for all of "their" heart kids. We had a really great time. We were able to catch up with some people that we haven't talked to in awhile. It was outdoors at the Wildlife Park - combo state park/zoo. We were able to take him to ride the train for the first time. He fell asleep. LOL! He was in a really good mood, the weather was great (80/light breeze), and not a lot of people who got right in his face. (that freaks him out).


This is the part we are REALLY , REALLY excited about...............drumroll please
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After 4 1/2 years, we may actually have a diagnosis for DS! Woo!Hoo!

Funny enough, I was listening to a TV program while doing dishes(Mystery Diagnosis - TLC) & the Mom was talking about her boys, who were both ill. The first one unfortunately died before they found out what the problem was. The second child came pretty close. At the end, they ran down the list of criteria for Barth syndrome , it was Christopher!!!

I went to the foundation website and read the abstracts regarding the syndrome. ( www.barthfoundation.org ) Absolutely everything applies to Christopher. We have all been tested for hundreds of disorders and syndromes. He always has 2 or 3 symptoms of things, but never the whole package.

So, I spent most of the day on the phone with Cardiologist, GI, neuro, and genetics today. The more we all talked, the more everybody got excited about BARTH syndrome. ::) The docs probably all hung up today and were thinking about how weird it is that we are all celebrating, "Yeah! MY kid has a rare uncurable syndrome! Woo!Hoo!" ::) LOL!

Anyway, the next step is to do genetics again to confirm. This is a recesive x-linked chromosome disorder. Translation - women carry it, boys develop the syndrome. So, any other boy children that we would have would have the syndrome. Girls would have a 50/50 chance of being a carrier, but never develop the syndrome.

There are only 47 other boys/males in the U.S. that have this syndrome. If Christopher has it, he will be the first to have both this syndrome and Down syndrome. The Down syndrome was just a fluke (we really already knew that).

The doctor who discovered it, and for whom the syndrome is named - Dr. Barth, is in the Netherlands. At some point, everybody who has the syndrome has been to see him. Trip to Holland? :) At the least, we may have to travel to the east coast to Kennedy Kreiger.

The funny thing is, there is a famous article about raising a child with Down syndrome called, 'Welcome to Holand".

coincidence? :)

Steph

StephiLou
09-29-2008, 08:07 PM
WELCOME TO HOLLAND

by Emily Pearl Kingsley


I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It is like this.....

When you're going to have a baby, it'slike planning a fabulous vacation trip---to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.

After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plan lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland."

"Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mena Holland?? I was signed up for Italy! I'm supposed to be in Italy. All my life I have dreamed of going to Italy."

But there has been a change of flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.

The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place.

So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met.

It's just a different place. It's slower-paced than Italy, less flashy than Italy. But after you've been there for awhile and you catch your breath, you look around......and you begin notice that Holland has windmills......and Holland has tulips. Holland even has Rembrandts.

But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy...and they're bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say, "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned."

And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, ever, go away......because the loss of that dream is a very significant loss.

But...if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things.....about Holland.

Terri
09-30-2008, 05:33 AM
When you have a diagnosis, then you can predict what the child will need. When my child was diagnosed with aspergers, then I knew where his education would be going.

I could plan ahead, instead of simply reacting to problems. As bad as the news was, I felt relieved.

Suzy
10-02-2008, 03:04 PM
We continue to pray and send our love your way!!!! Hopefully this new information will lead to ways you and Christopher can be more comfortable and have more peace!!!! We love you (even if it is all the way from Alabama!!!)