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ShaunaRB
06-02-2009, 11:52 AM
Hi everyone,
My husband and I are completely at wits end and I feel like I'm failing as a mother, so I'm hoping everyone can help me with this.
We have 3 daughters (ages 15,14, and 10). Our 15 and 14 year old is the immediate concern right now. We live in Baltimore, MD, where the city public schools are most definately not the safest (especially high schools)! We started our girls in public school (it was considered the best city public school in the area) until 6th grade. Safety issues arose then and we ended up putting all 3 girls in a Catholic school. This past year the two oldest girls started high school, and again, we put them in a catholic school because the public high school they would have to go to is most definately not safe for 2 girls. The financial strain has been horrendous! It's now the end of the school year and we're being told our girls can't take the exams because we still owe the school 1 1/2 months of tuition, which probably means they won't be going to 10th grade next year, whether it's private school or not. I started looking into homeschooling and how possible / impossible it would be, especially considering their ages. Will they adjust to home schooling, will colleges hold it against them when they see my girls were home schooled the last couple of years, is it even possible to homeschool when their father and I both work full time jobs? There's so much going through my head that I could cry, and I'm in no way the crying type! Anyway, sorry I got off topic...
So I go online and try to find answers on home schooling and that just seemed to make it more confusing, if that's possible. I'm hoping some of you can give me pros/cons of homeschooling, your opinion on my concerns stated above, and the most important question... Where do I begin???
ANY help would be so greatly appreciated!!!! Thanks so very much!!!

plowman
06-02-2009, 01:15 PM
the people i know use the beka system
it is widely used here in the south
as for the girls you'll have to have
a strick study time system for them

AzLoneRider
06-02-2009, 07:31 PM
Shauna,
We home school/ed both our kids. My daughter who turns 20 in 4 days is currently in community college and has applied to the nursing program to get a bachelors degree. She was home schooled from the 1st grade on. She is a well adjusted young adult. Being they are older the hardest thing they will have to adjust to is accountability. You will need to be on top of assigning and checking work at first. Once they understand that the work is non-negotiable they will be fine.

For local support/extra caricular activity do a web search for local home school groups and local home school co-ops. If you have further questions I can hook you up with my wife who has a plethora of homeschooling knowledge and knows how to work through home schooling issues.

oeb
06-03-2009, 03:38 AM
Maybe Catholic Charities can help with a loan or something (after a long talk with the admin at school, of course).

momma_to_seven_chi
06-03-2009, 06:51 AM
The very first thing to do is find out the laws in your area. Here is a link to HSLDA website listing the laws. Click the "legal analysis" part
http://hslda.org/laws/default.asp?State=MD

Here is a HSLDA link to news about issues in your state.
http://hslda.org/hs/state/MD/default.asp

I can tell you that it is more difficult to homeschool kids that are already peer dependent from attending schools for so many years. Find a coop or homeschool group in your area to find out about activities for your girls. At this age, they will be interested in social activities and graduation ceremonies, etc.
http://hslda.org/orgs/default.asp?State=MD