Good Christian woman is hard to find!

[cabinboy]

I'm a swcm, 36, 6 ft. 175 lbs. living in SW Ohio. I enjoy country living. I would like to meet a single Christian woman whom shares a desire for simple living. If this sounds like you, write me today! ;)

[Northwoods_Hippie]

Hi Cabin Boy,

I assume you regularly attend a church in your area, if the well is dry there then you might want to travel a bit to other churches of your faith in the area.

I did a Google search on "christian singles" and got 18,900,000 websites. I don't know how you feel about finding someone through a dating website but it might be your best bet.

Good luck with your search!
Margie
The Northwoods Hippie

[HillbillyPapa]

When you look for one, keep in mind that "saying one is a Christian is one thing- and Really being one is a totally different thing". If you are wanting someone which is a true Christian= they might not be cut in the mold of others/no matter which church they attend! Something should click in your mind and heart. And not only yours, but hers also. For heavens sake, find a peaceable woman. One which is 10 years younger or older will work out fine I would think=- if you can't seem to find one in your age catagory! Find one with a real good personality. Looks is a nice thing to have, but if it comes at a high cost as far as you sacrificing happiness= let it slide for the good natured one. Get one which is a little bit warm in her sexuality (not really a hot potatoe of sorts) or it might not set well in the long run. Some peoples hot naturedness comes in seasons from time to time I think. I would rather have someone which is hot from time to time= and happy to be with you, and you with her=, than one which is Hot all the time,,, and gets bored easily- and depressed often,,etc,etc,etc,.
Someone which you will not be scared to get close to, etc! Someone which will listen to you from time to time, and understand that a man has needs - just like women do.
The Bible says - "If you marry, marry in the Lord" - and like the other lady said previous= Looking around at different churches may be the answer, or at least part of it.
My motto is this------ If you are looking for a good girl,,,,, at yours and my age= we are about 20 years late, and a dollar short as the old saying was. Unless you are willing to get hooked up with one young enough to be your daughter, etc.
The first thing to me would be this-------------------- and this is my advice-- Keep faith as you look,,,, and don't be in a rush,,,,, and think things over -long and hard- before making any long term decisions = "as the bible said=- To count the Cost" that way - you won't become the laughingstock of the community, and your fellow brothers and sisters in the Lord!
That makes me think of another thing someone said to me once==========They said =- "Preacher - you still got the same wife?" And I said=======Yes, and absolutely! A crazy preacher would have a need for more than one wife====== matter of fact=-==== I don't even know what I need with one at times. Paul said= I would that you would abide as I,, and have power over your necessity,,,, to dedicate your life to God, etc.
Nope,,,, I just got one wife and that's enough! Everytime I trade cars, I get Jipped,,,, and I don't know what would happen if I started trading women. What's the matter with people anyway- that can't hold onto one woman,,,, and go about trading all the time (so it seems?)
I didn't mean to cast any kind of a snare on you,,,, this conversation just made this come to my remembrance! I hope everything turns out o.k. for ya!

[gypho]

I'm a swcm, 36, 6 ft. 175 lbs. living in SW Ohio. I enjoy country living. I would like to meet a single Christian woman whom shares a desire for simple living. If this sounds like you, write me today! ;)
This might fit better in the "Prayer Request" Thread. I'll help ya pray, even though I'm not eligible. There is nothing better (in this life) than being equally yoked with a partner.... and nothing worse than being UNequally yoked with one.

gypho

[Catalpa]

No, they're not. I'm right here. What's hard to find is a good Christian man! ::)

I'm a SWF raising my daughter on a modest homestead in Michigan. There are no single men of my age in my church, and I'm too busy for much of a social life.

It would certainly be nice to have a life partner, but until God sends him my way, I'm content to muddle through on my own. I've looked at a few of the "Christian" online dating sites, but wasn't really comfortable with any of them.

Besides, whenever I do get a bit of free time, I go hunting or skiing or kayaking or something like that, and it's not like there's a bunch of single men to trip over while I'm out there.

Here's a thought....I often attend Becoming an Outdoorswoman and Women in the Outdoors events. If you have any outdoors skills, and would volunteer to teach at one of these events, you'd certainly meet a lot of women! Check the internet - even though I'm in the Mitten, I believe these programs are nationwide, and there should be something near you. Or maybe a church in your area has Bible study classes, or maybe you should try grocery shopping on Saturday mornings....those are a few places where my single girlfriends and I could be found, should a man be looking.....

Take care, and may the Good Lord bless your search. :)

Catalpa

[gypho]

Welcome, Catalpa! Nice to have you here!

gypho

[Catalpa]

Thanks, gypho.

[Bwana]

I'm a swcm, 36, 6 ft. 175 lbs. living in SW Ohio. I enjoy country living. I would like to meet a single Christian woman whom shares a desire for simple living. If this sounds like you, write me today! ;)

Did you ever check out www.bigchurch.com ? There seems to be quite a few decent ladies there, many of whom you can tell by their profile that they are 'true' Christians. I've seen more than a few who've got it all it seems...including being classified as a "hottie"! There are some who are cons though, they ask for your regular (as opposed to anonymous) email addy right off the bat. Nice thing is though, that site doesn't tolerate that stuff and all you have to do is report them and they're booted. Check it out. I've met two real fine women and have been contacted by around 75 so far! Takin' up a lot of my time lately, not much to go around here. :-/ 8) ;) ;D

Dave

[ozarkinit]

I have been lurking for a while, but only just registered, and funny that this is the first post I chose. catalpa is right. good, daily christian single mother right here. good christian men? All I know are taken. I am nearly 30 and currently reside in Indianapolis.

[Catalpa]

Hey, Ozark, too bad we can't do anything about redistributing the good single guys around the countryside, eh?

Seems like there's lots of 'em in the city, but none out in the boondocks.

[independent]

Just what do you consider Good Christian Woman to be?

[independent]

Well cabinboy if you can't answer my question, then you may have been talking to a good christian woman and never even knew it

[alfriedar]

Heck I don't care if your not a Christian.. If you are connected to your spirit and know that a divine presence is in existence and that we all are connected .. thats good enough for me.. oh and that you try to keep your waist line trim and sexy..LOL I know such a guy lol I am in the city but as soon as my house sells I am open to live anywhere.. any honey have a need for a strong capable man with no vices.. 48 looks 38

[Coleen]

Not that hard to find if you are really looking.