Re: Prayer for me and my fiance

[Bad_Omen]

Ryan, first of all let me wish you and your fiancée the very best of luck and a wonderful future together if you decide that you are right for each other.

However I have to say that in my opinion it is a decision only the two of you can make. Don't go relying on God to to give you signs. If there is a God, I suspect this is one of those decisions he would leave up to you. You after all have to live with her, he doesn't.

Marriage is a very big commitment and one that affects not just the Bride and Groom, but all those around them. Not to mention any offspring that may arrive further down the road.

Make your own decisions and make them wisely and you will have a long and fruitful life.

PS don't go letting things like how much land she has influence you. You may as well have said 'Great she comes with a dowry, I'll snap her up.' Not a very respectful thing to say about a young lady.

Take care and the very best of luck to you.

[Deberosa]

Ryan, first of all let me wish you and your fiancée the very best of luck and a wonderful future together if you decide that you are right for each other.

However I have to say that in my opinion it is a decision only the two of you can make. Don't go relying on God to to give you signs. If there is a God, I suspect this is one of those decisions he would leave up to you. You after all have to live with her, he doesn't.

Marriage is a very big commitment and one that affects not just the Bride and Groom, but all those around them. Not to mention any offspring that may arrive further down the road.

Make your own decisions and make them wisely and you will have a long and fruitful life.

PS don't go letting things like how much land she has influence you. You may as well have said 'Great she comes with a dowry, I'll snap her up.' Not a very respectful thing to say about a young lady.

Take care and the very best of luck to you.

Well said. Ryan if you would like her just as well if you had to live in a one room apt. in the city to make ends meet that is the real test. Being one of those women with land of her own, it makes me nervous to hear you talk of what she owns in the same breath as deciding if you can make a life with her. Look deep into your heart and make sure you are not blinded by possessions because it's not fair to her as well as you to pretend.

Best wishes for a happy life together.

[MYellowRose]

I hate to be dumb, but just where exactly is Ryan's prayer request?
I was going to see if I had anything to say to him but since I'm unable to read his post I don't think I really can.