zachweiss
12-20-2008, 12:44 PM
I have worked with troubled teens / juveniles at various agencies for a number of years.
I just started working for another agency that works primarily with teenage girls. The place is decent, but the staff turnover rate is enormous.
My so-called "boss" has 8 months experience in this field. She's pretty legit on some issues, but on other things she is completely full of crap.....and she knows that I know that she's full of crap.
BTW, she is not "BOSS" material.........She just has the most seniority and the position fell into her lap.
Here's my problem:
We had a personal conversation about how to deal with a certain situation and she wrote a report on it and sent it to the main boss. I got a butt-chewing from hell. The report stated that I was arguing with her. I apologized to her and she acted like she didnt know what I was talking about and avoided the conversation.
I have a strange suspicion that my "boss" is completely intimidated by me. She tries to play it tough and act all macho, but I can see right through her most of the time. I have a strong presence and it is very evident that I am waaaaay more experienced than she is, but I have no desire to supervise any-damn-thing! (I just wanna be a regular dude for once!)
It seems that she is taking every little opportunity to sell me out to the main bosses........
Any thoughts?
What can I do to help lessen this chick's degree of paranoia?
I just started working for another agency that works primarily with teenage girls. The place is decent, but the staff turnover rate is enormous.
My so-called "boss" has 8 months experience in this field. She's pretty legit on some issues, but on other things she is completely full of crap.....and she knows that I know that she's full of crap.
BTW, she is not "BOSS" material.........She just has the most seniority and the position fell into her lap.
Here's my problem:
We had a personal conversation about how to deal with a certain situation and she wrote a report on it and sent it to the main boss. I got a butt-chewing from hell. The report stated that I was arguing with her. I apologized to her and she acted like she didnt know what I was talking about and avoided the conversation.
I have a strange suspicion that my "boss" is completely intimidated by me. She tries to play it tough and act all macho, but I can see right through her most of the time. I have a strong presence and it is very evident that I am waaaaay more experienced than she is, but I have no desire to supervise any-damn-thing! (I just wanna be a regular dude for once!)
It seems that she is taking every little opportunity to sell me out to the main bosses........
Any thoughts?
What can I do to help lessen this chick's degree of paranoia?